ya know, i have always noticed how fashion is so in fashion. whereever. and how people go gaga over whats in this season, whos wearin em, where to get em, how to get em and whatnots. i dont know. ive always been the dull, simple gal; baggy pants/jeans-tee/tank-sneakers. i dont really like change. my styles always been the same since young. and that really does reflect alot in my life; just a few changes but most are still intact. like before, i used to be very materialistic. but ive outgrown that, i dont care bout whats the latest, what i should get, etc, i learned to be contented with the things i have and keep it for as long as possible and not always go after the newer ones. its kind of a lil buggy whenever i see people talkin bout whats new, haha. not that i have anything against them; already i am living with someone as such [a brother that is]; so how worse can it get with the outsiders right? i dont care what people think of me. like when i shop, i still go for the similar things. i think the thing that really bothers a person is the trying-to-fit-in attitude. i may have been one back then, we all have. but once you start to be wise and start finding your true self and then youve settled down with that, youre gonna chuckle atchaself, then shake ya head. getting out of your thought-to-be "comfort zone" and actually finding your real, own comfort zone, will let you see the humongous difference.
its just real funny how i still know some who even put boys in their list of being in their "fashionable life". sheesh. they may not notice it at all unless you observe the pattern, contemplate. ouh, heres the thing, many think im a playa; havin many boys, a flirt kinda gal but they always get surprised when they get to know me. i was never the kind who gives out her number to any guy who wishes to get to know her; the most id do is give my e-add. the word "date" kinda makes it sound serious...hmmm, go out with. yea, going out with guys isnt that bad as long as both parties know what each others intentions are, so there wont be any bad blood between the two later; which is what i usually do - send my message across very clearly at first so no lead-ons will follow. goin out with different boys is no biggie, really, as long as you give em a clear message. the biggie is if, you go out, you hook up, say you love em then dump em or u get dumped, then find another one, without any clear message and the whole thing repeats. see, i dont like lead-ons; if the person confesses and its not mutual, i tell the person straight "its not gonna happen" and well stay as friends, which we actually do, and the friendships strong til now. its why i have many close guy friends who really respect me. i dont get into a relationship i dont think will work out with that person in the long run, even if ive strong feelings for that one, i think before i move. although i failed in my last relationship, heehee. ahh, for that one, i picked the wrong one. but i mean to say generally, among the other guys. so i picked the wrong one, which is also good because the rest are already a totally an-impossible-thing-to-happen but at least, our friendships are still intact.
so its pretty flatteringly annoying how people can be judgemental and think of you as someone youre totally the opposite of. and so to the judgemental people, get your facts right, before you judge, ask straight to the face and dont do it behind the back [unhealthy yknow!]. when i post something judgemental, i post with long-observed-evidences which means weeks/months/years-long, not hours/2-3days-long.
stay happy people ;)
its just real funny how i still know some who even put boys in their list of being in their "fashionable life". sheesh. they may not notice it at all unless you observe the pattern, contemplate. ouh, heres the thing, many think im a playa; havin many boys, a flirt kinda gal but they always get surprised when they get to know me. i was never the kind who gives out her number to any guy who wishes to get to know her; the most id do is give my e-add. the word "date" kinda makes it sound serious...hmmm, go out with. yea, going out with guys isnt that bad as long as both parties know what each others intentions are, so there wont be any bad blood between the two later; which is what i usually do - send my message across very clearly at first so no lead-ons will follow. goin out with different boys is no biggie, really, as long as you give em a clear message. the biggie is if, you go out, you hook up, say you love em then dump em or u get dumped, then find another one, without any clear message and the whole thing repeats. see, i dont like lead-ons; if the person confesses and its not mutual, i tell the person straight "its not gonna happen" and well stay as friends, which we actually do, and the friendships strong til now. its why i have many close guy friends who really respect me. i dont get into a relationship i dont think will work out with that person in the long run, even if ive strong feelings for that one, i think before i move. although i failed in my last relationship, heehee. ahh, for that one, i picked the wrong one. but i mean to say generally, among the other guys. so i picked the wrong one, which is also good because the rest are already a totally an-impossible-thing-to-happen but at least, our friendships are still intact.
so its pretty flatteringly annoying how people can be judgemental and think of you as someone youre totally the opposite of. and so to the judgemental people, get your facts right, before you judge, ask straight to the face and dont do it behind the back [unhealthy yknow!]. when i post something judgemental, i post with long-observed-evidences which means weeks/months/years-long, not hours/2-3days-long.
stay happy people ;)
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